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Whether we like it or
not unless you’re prepared to risk plastic surgery we are stuck
with the faces we are born with. Even with plastic surgery most
people are not going to grace the cover of vogue. If you
genuinely think you are unattractive and it is not some kind of
psychological neurosis then what can we do to up our chances of
finding a mate?
Here’s the answer. You
might not like the answer or you might not be bothered to do it
but never the less here is how you can improve your chances of
success with the opposite sex (or same sex if the case be) by
300%.
For women: If you
can change your body into something well toned or shapely you
will up you’re chances dramatically of finding a partner. A man
is very visually orientated and a woman’s body is usually
noticed first and her face last with the majority of men. A
woman can have average looks but if she has a good body she will
be far more in demand. So then as a woman if you can become as
toned as you can and get your body in good shape you will
attract men regardless of average looks. Also men like sexy
feminine clothes that show off a woman’s shape so have a look at
your wardrobe to see if you need to make some changes there too.
It is important though
to understand that I am not trying to tell you to become a male
fantasy serving sex object. Nothing could be further from the
truth. In fact being a strong fit woman will help you become
more in control of your life increasing your self-confidence and
well being. All I am saying is that you have to make the best of
your self. If you won’t do that then fine but don’t moan if
nothing happens in your love life. A woman with a great body
will always be in demand. It’s the reality of the word we live
in like it or not. If you are overweight or in poor shape you
must join a gym and look at your diet and lifestyle to see if
any changes can be made in this area too.
For the guys: If
you can change your body to become more muscular you will become
instantly more attractive to women. It is also true that an
average or even below average looking guy can make himself more
attractive the opposite sex by training in the gym to become
more muscular. Some women hate the look but some women love it.
I see it all the time an ugly guy with a fit body with a good
looking woman. Why? Because some women are attracted to the
“Neanderthal look” regardless of how good looking a guy is.
Yet again I am not
extolling radical body-building or even steroids all I am saying
is some ladies prefer good bodies to good looks! It is an
unconscious drive that some women have. Some will feel attracted
to a muscular guy as it unconsciously implies “better breeding”
like how animals find mates. Some women unconsciously think
bigger stronger guy can protect in the same way the silverback
Gorilla or Bull Elephant does. The dominant male syndrome.
I know this sounds corny
and I know that some women don’t fall into that category but
many do. The fact is more women like strong looking men than
skinny men. It’s instinctual, a big guy can look after / protect
me while a skinny or overweight guy can’t. Also look at your
wardrobe guys if you have a good body you should wear clothes to
highlight the fact.
Conclusion
So there you have it
whether you like these facts or not if you aren’t that great in
the looks department you’d better think about getting to the gym
if you are looking for love.
If you won’t or don’t
agree with my findings then that’s fine but don’t complain if
you can’t find a partner. Having a good body can create
self-confidence too and that isn’t a bad thing is it? Think
about it.
Steve
Telephone
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