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How to improve your chances with the opposite sex by 300%

   

Whether we like it or not unless you’re prepared to risk plastic surgery we are stuck with the faces we are born with. Even with plastic surgery most people are not going to grace the cover of vogue. If you genuinely think you are unattractive and it is not some kind of psychological neurosis then what can we do to up our chances of finding a mate?

Here’s the answer. You might not like the answer or you might not be bothered to do it but never the less here is how you can improve your chances of success with the opposite sex (or same sex if the case be) by 300%.

For women: If you can change your body into something well toned or shapely you will up you’re chances dramatically of finding a partner. A man is very visually orientated and a woman’s body is usually noticed first and her face last with the majority of men. A woman can have average looks but if she has a good body she will be far more in demand. So then as a woman if you can become as toned as you can and get your body in good shape you will attract men regardless of average looks. Also men like sexy feminine clothes that show off a woman’s shape so have a look at your wardrobe to see if you need to make some changes there too.

It is important though to understand that I am not trying to tell you to become a male fantasy serving sex object. Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact being a strong fit woman will help you become more in control of your life increasing your self-confidence and well being. All I am saying is that you have to make the best of your self. If you won’t do that then fine but don’t moan if nothing happens in your love life. A woman with a great body will always be in demand. It’s the reality of the word we live in like it or not. If you are overweight or in poor shape you must join a gym and look at your diet and lifestyle to see if any changes can be made in this area too.

 

For the guys: If you can change your body to become more muscular you will become instantly more attractive to women. It is also true that an average or even below average looking guy can make himself more attractive the opposite sex by training in the gym to become more muscular. Some women hate the look but some women love it. I see it all the time an ugly guy with a fit body with a good looking woman. Why? Because some women are attracted to the “Neanderthal look” regardless of how good looking a guy is.

Yet again I am not extolling radical body-building or even steroids all I am saying is some ladies prefer good bodies to good looks! It is an unconscious drive that some women have. Some will feel attracted to a muscular guy as it unconsciously implies “better breeding” like how animals find mates. Some women unconsciously think bigger stronger guy can protect in the same way the silverback Gorilla or Bull Elephant does. The dominant male syndrome.

I know this sounds corny and I know that some women don’t fall into that category but many do. The fact is more women like strong looking men than skinny men. It’s instinctual, a big guy can look after / protect me while a skinny or overweight guy can’t. Also look at your wardrobe guys if you have a good body you should wear clothes to highlight the fact.

Conclusion

So there you have it whether you like these facts or not if you aren’t that great in the looks department you’d better think about getting to the gym if you are looking for love.

If you won’t or don’t agree with my findings then that’s fine but don’t complain if you can’t find a partner. Having a good body can create self-confidence too and that isn’t a bad thing is it? Think about it.

Steve

                                                                                                                      

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