Always make the effort to look good for your partner. It’s not the right attitude to say “they should love me as I am”. They might still love you but if you want to have a brilliant relationship rather than a hum drum relationship make an effort to look good.
That means get your butt to the gym. Keep in shape. Wear nice clothes that show off your body. You’ll also feel more confident too. It doesn’t take any more effort to wear nice clothes than drab clothes. Don’t take your partner’s affections for granted.
When you first met you made the effort to look appealing for your partner. You should never change that. If you want more passion in your life, make an effort in your appearance and watch your love life improve. This advice is for both men and women.
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