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  Alcoholism

 

Are you an alcoholic or do you think you have a drink problem? Well if so then read on. You’ve probably tried on numerous occasions to stop drinking only to fall back off the wagon again. You ask yourself “why do I do it, why can’t I stop it?” Even though you know the dangers and you know the upset it causes your friends and family you still can’t stop doing it.

 

Having worked with a number of alcoholics and heavy drinkers over the years I have found that one of the reasons for drinking is to try to dampen down the incessant chatter that is going on in their heads. I find that people who have a drink problem do so because they seem to be unable to relax the internal chatter of their minds and alcohol helps to do just that. An alcoholic simply cannot stand the critical rantings of their own mind and the annoying thoughts that go with it. To put it simply they are trying to blot them out with alcohol. 

 

It seems that the only time they can get any peace with their minds is when they are drunk. This is not a great strategy though as the effects of alcohol only compound the problem more. Alcohol not only destroys the body it also can destroy families ad ruin lives but you know that already don’t you. You could say that the alcoholic lives the daily torture of their own bothersome thoughts so they look for some relief in the only way they know how. The person who is an alcoholic does not have much inner self-confidence and they constantly doubt themselves. This lack of self-confidence leads to drinking which gives the person a false confidence, which can only be maintained by alcohol and that’s why people become dependant. In alcohol a whole new personality can take over, a more bolder confident person can emerge with the ability to say things they wouldn’t dare say sober. The person who they would like to be more like can emerge with a personality which is sometimes more eccentric. This is the person they would like to be if only they had the self-confidence.

 

This though is nothing but a façade, which becomes more ridiculous by the day. Usually the more drunk a person gets the more stupid their behavior becomes as friends and families can become tired of the drunken rantings.  Soon the person needs to be more drunk and more often to maintain it. The bottom line is fear, fear of being the person really you want to be. This fear and doubt is caused by an inability to control ones thoughts correctly. This inability to control this function causes the doubts to show up in the first place. At this point the conscious mind is in charge and the wise sub-conscious is dullened by the effects of alcohol and the bullying conscious mind. It is the conscious mind that causes the problems in the first place and it is that part of the mind, which a person is trying to get away from.

 

The constant chatter and analysis of the conscious mind must be controlled if a resolution to alcohol dependency is desired. This can only be achieved with the knowledge of how to do just that. In the Principles of Life book there is a comprehensive guide for learning the strategy for doing just that. You would be surprised how easy it can be although it takes practice to get the system flowing I have had success in just a few weeks with clients using this system. Alcoholism can be beaten but I would be a liar if I were to say that it is an easy straight forward thing to resolve it. It takes effort on your part and a full commitment is needed but it is in no way impossible. As we are right now somebody somewhere is creating a life away from alcohol. You can do it too. If you cannot see me personally you can find all the information to turn this thing around in The Principles of Life book.  Do not give in to alcoholism, your life is too important for that. It’s not too late to do something about it. Your life can be something you can be proud of.

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