Male
Impotence
This annoying condition affects many
men at different stages of their lives. Impotence is often created when a
man fails to achieve an erection and then questions why it happened creating
doubt for future sexual contact. In other words a guy worries about it
happening again and therefore sows the seed of doubt. This doubt becomes
more fixed with the repetition of negative thoughts surrounding his sexual
performance.
The more a guy thinks about failing to achieve an erection the more anxious
about it he becomes. This anxiety then turns into dread so sex may be
avoided or it may become an ordeal. Many factors can cause impotence but
the prolonging of it is certainly caused by thinking. Thinking it’s going
to happen again and almost waiting for it to happen in my experience is the
biggest cause.
Replaying past negative sexual
experiences over and over in the mind helps to create fear and dread. Often
in the beginning factors such as pressure at work, stress, tiredness and
poor physical condition can lead to erection failure, but over analysing the
incident causes the necessary anxiety build up to prolong it.
Solution
In most cases men become embarrassed
by this problem, which compounds the anxiety but if the person that you are
with is of any decent standing or intelligence they will be patient until
things becomes normal again. If they are not and they say something like
“what’s the matter with you, don’t you like me?” they are not worthy of your
attention anyway and you should drop them. A worthy person will be
understanding and patient through this difficult time.
So if you can relate to any of this stuff here is my advice to you. First
of all if you are in a relationship tell your partner that you are nervous
about sex and that you need them to be understanding with you until you get
back to normal. Don’t be embarrassed to tell them as like I said before if
they are the one for you they WILL understand. Also it puts their mind at
rest as they might be thinking that you have lost interest in them or even
have another lover. Most partners with any integrity will be happy with
your honesty and frankness. You could say that this in eliminating the
Dodo’s.
1. Tell them that you have been seeking some advice and that I said that
you will not be attempting sex with them for a little while. For the first
week you may kiss and touch as much as you like but NO and I mean NO sexual
intercourse.
2. On the second week you may touch each other sexually and kiss but No
sexual intercourse.
3. On the third week if you feel confident sex may be attempted but only if
you really want to.
These simple strategies are very successful in helping to overcome impotence
and also take away any pressure a person may be feeling. Do not be put off
by the simplicity of this three-step guide, as it is very successful. For
the man who has no partner please note that too much masturbation can cause
problems as the penis can become desensitised so that it will only respond
to masturbation.
In both cases learning Thought Re-training, which is outlined in
The Principles of Life book is
invaluable for controlling those negative thoughts that can sow the seeds of
doubt. By learning to eliminate those negative thoughts a person can have
times where they lose an erection or fail to achieve one and simply pass it
off without putting too much emphasis on it.
It is only when we look too deeply into things that we engage the negative
influence of the conscious mind and then we begin to doubt ourselves.
Learning how to dismiss the negative chatter of the conscious mind is the
first step to solving this problem.
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